What's in a secret? You cannot imagine how much I have to keep in, professionally and personally. I think I have to keep something new to myself once every day. Over the course of working as a HR professional, I learn to keep my mouth shut. Many times, I learn to disregard leading questions that can just lead anyone to blab what they know. The secret to making someone talk is to make assumptions and create allegations. They may be true or false, but whatever it is, it usually makes someone talk. People are just programmed to want to be the person with all the source. Hence, tricking people into telling you what they want to tell you will be very easy. Anyways, just rambling on. I know I am not making any sense.